I spoke with Mr. Incredible about the ring on Friday.  He agreed that we should return the flawed setting and pick out a new one.  So we met at the jewelers when I got out of work Friday and can you believe I didn’t find one ring that I loved!  They sent me home with a website to check out and I still couldn’t find anything that I just had to have!

After days of making myself physically ill over the whole thing, I finally made a decision.  I decided I couldn’t make a decision!  So we are going to have the two bands soldered together and will order a separate wedding band later.  I figured that would make the Mr. happy and it would solve the design problems I had with the ring.  Even though he wanted me to pick something I would like, I knew he was upset that I didn’t like what he picked out.  So I compromised but he still doesn’t think I will be happy and that in turn will make him unhappy.  There doesn’t seem to be a good solution at this point except time to get over the whole debacle and move on.

Now to change subjects…I hate this time of year!  I bitch about this every year and I am never prepared for the amount of crap that will be going on for the next three weekends.  Here’s a rundown…

May 21-Dance rehearsal

May 22-Dance Recital, Mr. Incredible’s Birthday

May 23-Mom’s Birthday

May 28-My Brother’s Birthday and we are staying overnight at our friends camp in Ohio.

May 29-Going to Mr. Incredible’s Aunt’s camp

May 30-Plant my garden, maybe go back to friend’s camp in Ohio

May 31-Cookout at my house to get our families together

June 4-Sidekick’s Sleepover and Bowling

June 5-Cake and Ice Cream for Sidekick’s Birthday

Whew!  I’m stressing out already and trying to figure out how much money I need to hit the lottery for.  Someone hold me.