It turns out that the flaw in the metal of my ring is a freaking hole, I can see diamond shining through it.  I was going to tell Mr. Incredible about it last night but I got the mother of all migraines and not even two doses of my prescription migraine meds could tame the beast enough for me to have a conversation.  Even if I loved the ring I would want to take it back because there should not be a freaking hole in something that cost several thousand dollars!  Truth is that I like the ring but I would like it better if the two bands were one ring and then there was a separate wedding band because the engagement ring alone looks dumb and once the two rings are welded together it will look like it is one ring and that there is no wedding band.  So it will just look like I am perpetually engaged and not actually married…when that day comes.

Speaking of that day, it may come sooner than I want.  Our friends have offered us an all-inclusive trip to Punta Cana, Dominican Republic.  At THIS RESORT. The resort does complimentary weddings!  Only down side is that the trip HAS to be taken this year and that really seems like rushing it especially because we would want to have a reception for family once we get back and that will cost $$ we don’t really have to blow.

And is it wrong that I’m already browsing for wedding dresses?  I’m not looking for anything expensive, I’m not willing to spend much but would still like to look pretty.  This ONE caught my eye.